This week in class we looked at ageism and adultism, defined
as ageism: the oppression of elders by youth and adults, and adultism: the
oppression of young people by adults and elders. As I was looking for
articles to relate these definitions to my overall theme of gender, it
was quite easy to do. Each of the articles I found focus on women and
aging and how each of
these ideas relate to one another.
In Harris's article Women
Embrace Aging, Despite Experiencing Ageism More Deeply
than Men, she discusses how women throughout the world are embracing their
age even though statistics show that "68 per cent of older
women said they've been treated unfairly or differently due to their years,
versus 57 per cent of older men" (Harris, M., 2013). This disconnect is
believed to be a result of women maintaining stronger social networks than
men, which may serve as a buffer against negativity; promote physical,
emotional and mental health, allowing a sense of having defied negative senior
stereotypes; and give women purpose. This article really intrigued me
and gave me reason to think more about the women I know and how their health
has been significantly better in older age than men in their similar
situations.
Continuing the trend of having stronger social networks, in Ready to go Gray?, Whitbourne discusses how some
women are ditching hair dye for a more natural look and reflecting on why they
are trying to keep their youthful image, rather than embracing who they are
changing into. This could be because of ageism, oppression in the workplace or
just a reaction to getting older. If we think about how men with gray hair are
looked at, I think of wise, experienced and knowledgeable but on the
other hand women with gray hair simply are seen as old by the public. Why this
double standard over something as trivial as hair color? Embrace who you
are ladies, and if you're graying and don't like it, then go ahead and get the
hair dye.
Finally, a topic
that I think it absolutely ridiculous, but I've heard in the news quite a bit
lately, is that some women are "too pretty" for their jobs. A story
I'm sure most of America heard this past year was about and Iowa
mother-of-two Melissa Nelson who was fired in 2010 after working for a dentist
for 10 years because he said his attraction to her was a threat to his
marriage. Ms. Nelson's story is not the only of its' kind, in fact in
Fynes-Clinton's article, discusses other similar cases from London and
California where women have experienced discrimination because of their
looks.
Fynes-Clinton, J. (2013, July 25). Ageism and sexism are
common types of discrimination in the workplace but being pretty is a problem
too. In Courier Mail. http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/opinion/ageism-and-sexism-are-common-types-of-discrimination-in-the-workplace-but-being-pretty-is-a-problem-too/story-fnihsr9v-1226684162280
Harris, M. (2013, July 3). Women embrace aging, despite
experiencing ageism more deeply than men. In Calgary Herald. http://www.calgaryherald.com/life/Women+embrace+aging+despite+experiencing+ageism+more+deeply+than/8612066/story.html
Whitbourne, S. K. (2013, July 24). Ready to Go Gray? Why Some
50+ Women Are Ditching The Hair Dye. In Huff Post Post 50. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/susan-krauss-whitbourne/aging-gracefully_b_3610251.html